Gone for 2 weeks (she knew about this, he told her) can't call you for that time (training), keep in mind this is perfectly ok with daughter. Gets back from exercise - calls her right away for a couple of days. Now the "test" begins. No calls for days (has told her this can happen, she's ok with this). She leaves him a voice mail "hope everything is going well and hope your are ok). No return call. Gets a message that he's back, has been, never went anywhere else. And now this is the kicker - calls her from a party after she calls and asks "whats going on?" he says who do you think you are, you need to learn this is the way it can be, I may not call you for days or you might not see me for days. It's the way life will be! (all this while he's at a party, girls and guys laughing and carrying on - and she can hear all of this). "Maybe we need to think this over, gotta go. (hangs up on her. She calls back leaves a voice mail says" I'm thru, we're thru. (Keep in mind this is the 4th time he's pulled stuff like this) He calls her back says who do you think you are, God? F*&)(*)* You.
Now I have a broken hearted daughter, for the 4th time, but this time it's worse. She was willing to wait to attend college, and move where he is, set up there house and settle in and then go on to school.
I know this is long winded of me, but tell me this is not how these young men are trained or taught to think/treat women.
Miltb
